Well, I would say, if something is written, then something works, right?! ;-) My boyfriend is mostly, but unfortunately also quite often on the hose when I turn him on! He's just a bit shy, which I found really great at first. But now I long for spontaneity, passion and adventure again! I need a spirited lover who knows exactly what he wants! If you are such a person, then nothing stands in the way of a meeting... and what goes then, you will find out soon enough!! ;-)