It doesn't always have to be with the lights off and the ceiling over it. Why not outside the bedroom..? In a park, at the motorway service station or maybe in a swingers club!? That would tempt me... But unfortunately all this is not possible alone:( And my vibrator is no real help to me :) But maybe I'll find a suitable man here for such games and swindles? I'm already looking forward to you!! See you soon I hope!!