I don't know how it works with other people, I personally can't just ignore my urges. However, this becomes problematic when you are bound and therefore do not actually have the freedom to do it simply... Even if it is reprehensible, I have listened to my head long enough, now it is time to follow the urges. So I am now looking for a man who is ideally in a similar situation and is looking for a discreet way out together with me...